So, in order for things to move forward, Serkan needs to tell her he doesn’t want to get back together with Selin.įor once I’m not going to start with Eda and Serkan but with all the female relationships and interactions this episode. It also has prevented her from being able to express her feelings to him, she won’t because she thinks he loves Selin. Unfortunately, she believes he loves someone else so doesn’t see this behaviour for a declaration of love. He is trying to give her everything that she wants out of life. Of course, it doesn’t work like that, she’s is the bigger hurt and he made the bigger mistake, but for Serkan, even in his life things are always a negotiation.Įda needs to recognize and understand Serkan’s way of communicating his feelings to her. Serkan is acting according to his character, he doesn’t like to apologize, or if he has to, he wants Eda to apologize too, so that it’s equal.
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There is nothing worse for me than a tv show or a book suddenly having the protagonists expressing their love for one another and one is left thinking ‘where did this come from all of a sudden’ or ‘this is so out of character’. The audience is looking forward to some romantic movement in their relationship but I am loving the slow-moving forward of things. This annoys her somewhat but she does respond with a few smiles. He teases her and jokes with her and even tries to manipulate her into taking care of him after she pepper sprays him in the face.
It was interesting how almost jovial he was this episode, I truly think he is tremendously happy that she hasn’t betrayed him. We know this is because she is protecting her heart and is very upset with him, but her words and actions have impacted on him to where he thinks he is the only one with feelings in their relationship.
She has continued to tell him that she hates him (notice that he hasn’t said it back for a number of episodes) and has tried her best for the last two episodes to get away from spending any alone time with him. Serkan doesn’t know that she loves him, in fact, he has stated a few times over the last few episodes that he thinks that she doesn’t really like him. She doesn’t recognize that all that Serkan is doing, searching for her, kidnapping her, trying to ruin Kaan for her, giving her the opportunity to work on the eco-hotel, is his way of saying that he’s regretful. Aaron GoldmanĮda just wants a simple apology, she wants the words of contrition. He doesn’t know the depth of her feelings for him and so doesn’t recognize the impact of having the person you love not trust you.Ĭommunicate unto the other person that which you would want him to communicate unto you if your positions were reversed. He knows that she is mad at him, what he doesn’t understand is that she is also really hurt. Serkan’s way of apologizing is to make her life better. He wants to take the eco-hotel project back and have Eda work on the designs and landscape, yes to get back at Kaan, but also to give Eda the chance to live her dream of being a landscape architect, he is trying to fulfill her dreams. He is trying to get retribution for them. He wants to ruin Kaan, yes for himself which is what Eda focuses on, but also because both Eda and Melo were hurt. I’m betting that he hasn’t ever done this before for someone else. He is even a bit shocked when Eda doesn’t appreciate that he’s done this, ‘but I came for you’, Eda doesn’t know that this is special treatment. Let’s dig into that a bit he goes looking for her and suffers the disdain of her friends and aunt to do so, he searches several gardens before he finds her, I doubt he would have put as much effort if it was anyone else. Serkan does not like to apologize, Engin says as much, but he does try to make it up to Eda. I know many will be frustrated with Serkan this week and his seeming inability to recognize his mistakes and make amends with Eda, but he does try in his emotionally stunted way. I come to appreciate and love this show more and more every week. Dianna BooherĪnother stellar episode from the Sen Çal Kapimi team. Communication is about what others hear with your words.
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